Idea #3: Spooky Sexy Wedding
Halloween is our favorite holiday. Both Remi and I share the love of all things Halloweeny. Personally I think it stems from the following reasons: My birthday is October 10th, so I like to claim ALL...
View ArticleOnce upon a time …… By Request
One of my favorite readers asked me to blog about how Remi and I met. I could have sworn that I had but after digging in the archives, I realized I never did tell the exact story of how it all began. I...
View ArticleThis Ain’t No Invisible Tea Party
After multiple mental run-throughs of our various destination wedding ideas, I started to freak out. Was I cheating myself by simply having a pool-side cocktail party wedding? Was the original...
View ArticleCCL’s Latest Category
One of CCL’s favorite readers, who has also become an email buddy of mine has mentioned she would enjoy some more Sasha & Remi love story. LOL Well …. I did the next best thing. I went through the...
View ArticleLesbian Hubby
I don’t know how I feel about the word fiance. I mean, I love it because it means she finally popped the question! But when I refer to her in conversation I catch myself still using the term...
View ArticleWedding Dilemma
You all brought up so many good points about the type of wedding we’re going to have. Is it sacrificing our individuality for tradition? Is giving into pressure to prove something really just selling...
View ArticleIdea #4: The Roaring 20’s
The idea of a costume themed wedding really took hold in my imagination. I started brainstorming about how I could incorporate the feel of a costume party without letting it take over. Then the idea of...
View ArticleMarried Lesbian Name Changes
A while ago I posted a blog about some random survey done in some far away land, that said people think differently of women that take their partner’s name after marriage. And by differently, I mean...
View ArticleSasha’s BIG Secret
I have a secret to tell you all. It’s something that Remi and I have been trying to keep a secret for several reasons. But as time goes on, it’s getting harder and harder to keep to ourselves. I guess...
View Article“THE” Wedding Theme: Pasties Not Included
I must have some super serious writer’s block because I can’t freakin’ think of anything to write about that’s worth you reading. So, I thought I’d just ramble a bit. We found a wedding venue. No, it’s...
View ArticleIn Defense of Our Burlesque Wedding
First of all, thank all of you who commented on my last blog. Even the ones that didn’t approve of my ideas 😉 I appreciate your honesty becuase it makes me ask myself those questions and really think...
View ArticleWedding Plans Postponed!
As a lot of you know, our wedding plans have been postponed. Not cancelled. Just postponed. I swear. Part of me is totally bummed but the other part of me is responsible for the delay, so I figure I...
View ArticleWhat Marriage Does To You
I asked Remi the other day if she ever finds herself silently saying, “Oh my God! We’re MARRIED!” Because I do! A lot actually. Not as much as the first few months, but every now and then, while going...
View ArticleRemi’s Perfect Plan
Remi doesn’t usually make the plans. I’m usually the planner in this family, but unfortunately planning = stress and stress = a very bitchy Sasha most times. So Remi had asked me to stop planning...
View ArticleA Romantic Day Trip
I didn’t mean to leave you guys with a cliffhanger on the last blog. Since really, there wasn’t much of a cliff …. it was more like a nice rolling plateau for the rest of the day. After that magical...
View ArticleBecoming The Woman My Mother Warned Me About
Recently, Remi and I were just chillin’ at the house. Neither one of us had anything to talk about. I hadn’t been anywhere in weeks. Her schedule consisted of work, home, work, home, repeat. She sat...
View ArticleShow Me Your Jagger
This is currently one of my favorite songs to dance around to. Whether car dancing with Remi at stop lights with glow sticks or by myself at home in my undies, this is on today’s playlist. After...
View ArticleHello, Social Life?
Yay! Remi FINALLY got a new work schedule that gives her regular work hours!! This might not sound like the biggest deal in the world but it is. Here, let me break this down in my world: For the...
View ArticleWhat does the Society hold for Lesbians?
Racial indifferences, cultural barriers and discrimination are a few terms that create unexplainable differences among common man. Though most of such issues have been overcome, there are still a...
View ArticleBeing a Married Lesbian
So I’ve been away a while, for a whole host of reasons! But I know some might wonder what was so important that you let CCL flounder a while all alone? Well first there was the wedding! Which I didn’t...
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